I am currently processing out T's upcoming vacation. It is only going to be 1 week but it will be the longest without contact time since the attachment and transference. So far, ummm not quite to kicking and screaming... more pouting in corner and clinging. - so I guess, I'm not handling it very well. I'm still hoping some how there will be some type of middle of vacation communication of.. I'm still here, I haven't forgotten about you thing, last I heard though, she didn't know where she was going. And I feel really intrusive to ask for such a thing. I really want her to offer what she is willing to do, but she won't - that's not how my therapy is rolling.