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Old May 16, 2017, 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted by growlycat View Post
Yes kashi has medical reasons for his challenges and told me a similar story as what you describe with MC. His parents were told not to expect anything. What a terrible thing for a child to hear. It can become a self fufilling prophecy. Thanks for sharing about your MC!! I love a good underdog story.
It is an awful thing to tell parents--or kids. I mean, I still remember trying to take an oil painting class through the rec association as a kid, and the teacher told me my painting was "terrible" and the flowers "looked diseased." I was convinced I could never do art and was stunned when I got an A in art in high school (I'm still not very good, but hearing that made me think I should never even try).

MC has lots of underdog stories--there's also the "figuring out how to play on the basketball team while short" one (he's maybe 5'5"). That was the one where I mentioned to my T he shared it--it was a really bad analogy to something with me--and she was like "He played basketball?!?" and started laughing hysterically.
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Thanks for this!
growlycat