Hello Yukinokoneko: I'm sorry I don't really have anything to offer with regard to this. But I wanted to at least leave a reply letting you know I read your post. One thing I will just mention is that posts of this length tend not to attract many readers here on PC. So I don't know how many replies you'll receive. Hopefully, if there are other members who have had similar experiences, they will take the time to read your post & reply with some beneficial suggestions. I wish you well...