Dear LT,
Of course I'm hoping you'll meet with T today and won't feel such a need to talk to me afterward. Why do you think I suggested we wait to talk? But if you still want to talk, I'll honor my offer.

I hate that you're struggling and worry that something I said made it worse. As soon as I said the word "boundaries," I figured you'd react this way. But I just have to say it, give it lip service so to speak--I don't necessarily have to adhere to them. Remember when I said I would have to stick to 45-minutes for sessions? I mean, how long did that last--a week or two? But I at least need to act like we're focusing on you and H as a couple, even though clearly you individually are the one who needs the most help. And I want to help you. It's like I can't keep myself from helping you, if that makes any sense. But I have to talk the talk. Doesn't mean I'm going to walk the walk.

Take care, and talk to you soon (probably sooner than Monday anyway),
MC