I've vented my heart out. My boyfriend is doing a little at a time (with missing some days often), but I know it will take him years to get the house clean. Our air conditioning stopped working last year, and we've yet to get it fixed. He talks like we'll be getting it fixed soon, but I don't see how he's going to make the house clean enough to let a repair person in.

Even if he can't throw me out, he can make my life a worse hell than it is now.

Venting helps, but it's not enough.