When I try to bring something up that is bothering me or I need to talk about something...H shuts me down and says....there's always something bothering you why are we bothering to stay together.
I am not a nag by any means.....but sometimes you want to talk about something that is bothering you.
Example: H stuck his legs out from the couch as I walked by.....for a joke probably....well I tripped and fell hard....my glasses flew across the floor and I jarred my neck..
My son(27) came running infrom the kitchen as he was there to see if I was ok.
H didnt move an inch...didn't get up to see if I was ok or get up to help me up.
I said right then...it would have been nice if you could have helped me up....he said I m sick....yes he has an ear infection he is not paralyzed.
Whether I walked into his legs or he was just playing around by sticking his legs out I felt he didn't care.
I tried to bring it up this morning but he shut me down and told me to stop complaining....everything bothers me...sooo not true. I said if I can't bring up something that is bothering me ...that is wrong.
I very rarely talk about anything because I get shut down like this all the time.