I have told him that he's a trigger. I don't think he 100% understands and I know he doesn't know the thoughts that are happening inside my head or how it affects the way I feel. I guess I could try talking to him more about it. I've tried getting him to maybe see a therapist for anger and irritability because I think he'd benefit from it. He is in the army and after coming home from his deployment he's quicker to anger and is way less patient. That was like 2 yrs ago.