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May 17, 2017, 12:38 PM
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Member Since: Sep 2014
Location: UK
Posts: 270
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Originally Posted by cielpur
Of course it's possible. A leopard never changes its spots, no matter what form of technology it uses to communicate with.  |
Very true. They are who they are and they will never change.
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Originally Posted by cielpur
She will still be psychologically abusive, controlling and money grabbing and vindictive with you, now that you are broken up, because that's who she is, at her core.
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That is so true. She has shown her true colours and I now see her for what she really is (naively I didn't see that fully at the time) but was convinced that her behaviour towards me 'wasn't totally normal'.
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Originally Posted by cielpur
When people show you who they are, believe them. She's shown you who she truly is. Believe her.
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Absolutely and a rule of thumb I will most definitely stick to.
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Originally Posted by cielpur
Surround yourself only with people who have your best interest at heart, who lift you up and support you in your pursuits and dreams in life. Everyone else, leave them by the wayside.
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I shall, because she never showed as much of an ounce in any of my interests but I always did with her interests etc. It felt very one sided to an extent.
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