Katydid, that is great! That's so good that you are keeping close tabs on each other. There's nothing like communication to help solve problems and let each other know that you love and support each other. I'm certain seeing each other in person will be very good for both of you. My wife uses I think skyp or other software to stay in touch with her mom and sister on Ipad (Apple hardware). It is so great to be able to see each other in real time like that. You may want to see if you can get you computer set up like that. It can really make a big difference. Try it. Shalom.