This is very hard for me. My household consists of my husband, my brother, and myself. Neither of the men do much to assist me. My husband spends most of his day in his shop so he don't have to deal with my brother, my brother spends most days on the couch, and starts drinking as early as 10:30. He was drinking as early as 8 or 9, and we told him no more, not until noon, or later. Besides his drinking he always turns the tv to war movies, old movies, and stuff like that. I pay about 150 dollars a month so that his room, my husband's room, mine & my husbands room, and the living room has tv, but my brother won't go up to his room until 6,7,or 8 pm, after he has had all the beer he wanted for that day, then he eats. The hard thing is that the 3 of us are disabled. I try not to complain about my disabilities, so I guess they think that I am ok, so I can handle most of the things to be done. Yesterday my brother pointed out that there is a lot of dust on the living room tv, but he didn't get up and clean it off, neither did I. I think I am going to try to leave some things undone, and see if ether man takes care of it. Wishful thinking... If I don't do what ever, it don't get done.