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she has asked if i have a girlfriend, how long it's been since I was in a relationship, she asks what I'm doing this weekend, and there is a little flirting going on to. I'm nervous but I like being around her.

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Eeuuhmm... so now you are asking us if you should ask this girl out? You have no idea, can't start to imagine why she would ask what you're doing this weekend? You're thinking "Ok, I'm so in love with this girl, and she obviously takes an interest in me... pleeaase.. tell me what to do!"?
Ask her out, kiss her, something like that maybe?

And for the "obviously male" behaviour that says not to be too sweet because girls don't like it? That's not typically male! typically male is "don't be sweet when you don't feel like it, and get to the having sex part asap, without letting her know that you feel like having sex: they don't 'put out' then". These are just two good strategies to get what is desired; in the first sentence that is "getting a girl that you like to like you back" and in the second "getting sex". Women, even people in general, don't want to be begged, they want to be conquered in a pleasant way. Just too bad that even knowing this, doesn't mean that you're able to actually hide that you're head over heels in love with her.