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Originally Posted by sunsurfandsand
That is a very good question.....life is so short.
That's the problem.....there are some good times that keep me holding on
My kids are all adults now so they aren't keeping me here....very confused right now
I feel a bit trapped.....holding out for the good times but hating the bad
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I hear you.
I got out of an unhealthy relationship about a couple of months ago that lasted for almost 3 years because I decided that I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with this person. It was a very good decision for me and I never regret it. Now I am in a healthy relationship and it is going very well.
I guess what I am trying to say is, life is short like you said, but it isn't too late to make changes that are best for you. It's never easy to leave a long-term relationship because there is the feeling of "I've wasted so much time with this person", but I'd like to think that we learn valuable lessons from these unhealthy relationships.
Regardless of what you decide, I hope you find happiness!
