They reality is our relationship started out professionally. Do I wish we could just be friends maybe but it isn't realistic. Besides if she were just friend the dynamics would be different. With even my best friend I do but dump all my problems to work though. I think to some degree it is a great setup. I get to talk about all my problems without guilt..but we also exchange info on our hobbies, talk about our families, can laugh and have fun..efc for the most part if is T the dnd/after my appointment and through email.

Trust is a hard one. I felt a connection early on and felt she was somebody I should be able trust. To actually have trust it took a while. Trust will always be an issue with anybody even my husband of 22 years. I my level of trust is the same level as my husband and best friend in my head O know I can trust them but O have days where I doubt everyone