The mentality I am dealing with is this. I have been trying to get him to stop a couple of really bad habits....for quite a few years now.....It has caused a lot of problems and him flying off the handle ....saying it's my house I ll do what I want.
He bites the skin from around his nails and drops it beside his chair....there are others but this is the worst. I have even compromised by putting a container on the side table where he sits so he can put it in there and keep it off the floor....A few months ago I called him on constantly belittling me by call me a baby or child or telling me to grow up. I kept asking him to stop....he said....well you stop bugging me about my habits and I ll stop calling you names....what does one have to do with the other....