I also have one t that I felt like I "knew" right away that I could come to trust. My trust grew very slowly, and sometimes even now I don't trust him. T3, I really didn't like at first. I didn't like her style, didn't want to trust her, didn't feel comfortable. I only stuck it out because I was desperate and she has some training and experience that I believed (correctly) would help me. I still don't trust her a lot. It's been close to 2 years, I think, that I have been seeing her. But despite my lack of trust, she has been immensely helpful.