I'm glad you have a great mom Janniebug but I don't think a mom should EVER slap a daughter across the face. Not that I haven't been sorely tempted. I spanked one of my kids once because I was so desperate I wanted to see if it would work. She turned to me after and said that a mother should Never hit her child and that I should never do that again. She was young and I was foolish. Wonder if she remembers? Parenthood ain't so easy eh?