Whiis, I've never used these myself before - but aren't there well known websites whose function is to organize group meet-ups for people with similar interests? Is there a particular hobby or activity that you enjoy partaking in? Any interest in volunteering to help and work with animals, or volunteering elsewhere? Do you like reading? Maybe there is a local area book club? Did you play any sports growing up? What about finding a Unitarian Universalist church (from what I understand these types of churches are open to and accepting of a wide variety of beliefs among the church members)... Just tossing out some ideas here...