Mz jello......I usually don't come online during the day, but you have been on my mind since last nite. I wanted to see if you had come back & if you were ok.

Your questions are hard to answer cause we are all so different as are our T's. But, for your own reasons you need some answers to them. I can feel that.

I am a crier by nature. I cry when very moved, angry or hurt. Sometimes I cry just cause I'm over-tired. I guess I qualify as a cry-baby.

However, if I was on the verge and welled up. My t would wait paiently for me. He NEVER forces anything on me. UNLESS he fears for my safey. Even then, he doesn't push, but sits even more forward in his chair. I know when his voice gets to the point that I can hardly hear it, he is feeling very concerned. This makes me listen more closely. Maybe that's the point. Whenever he feels that something HE has said has made me feel worse or more upset, he says " I am just guessing here. I could be wrong. Am I in the wrong place? Can you help me?"

Does this help at all? I really want to help you right now. I am feeling a little frustrated cause you seem to be tied in a little ball hurting very much and I am not sure if I am answering the right question.



tulips