thanks. its easier to envision a treatment when there is a name for something. i bet thats part of the reason why i have been having weight problems. i know that when youre stressed your body releases cortisol which packs on fat. so if im always stressed that could have something to do with it.

im taking a RAD (rape agression defense) course in the spring cause they have the program here at SIU and hopefully that will help me not be so scared if I know how to defend myself.