RubyRae,

So this woman calls you her best friend, yet she doesn't let you meet her groom in person, and doesn't even mail you a wedding invitation?

Sounds like she definitely uses the phrase "best friend" very loosely; very superficially. I had a friend like this once. She wanted a phone friend in me, and refused every single social invite I offered to meet in person. We met through a mutual friend at the mutual friend's party. But she wouldn't agree to hang out with me in person; yet she had hours to waste talking to me on the phone. I never got to meet her husband, or meet her other friends because she never invited me out either. Eventually, I ended the phone-friendship with this woman because it was ridiculous the amount of time we wasted chatting on the phone.

So, that said. I would just downgrade this phone-a-friend to an option in your life. She's not showing you signs of true friendship from where I stand.