I got more clarification just now.

He apparently won't be seeing a sex therapist, but actually a regular therapist who happens to deal with porn addiction.

I think that may be the culprit I have no idea how to help...

I know I should not be thinking this way but it really messes with my self-esteem, thinking to myself that he'd much rather watch a bunch of naked girls in porn than do things with me...which I know ultimately isn't true.

Really hoping this gets better.