Hi there! So thanks in advance for reading my kinda long story. Ok so everytime I try to do something nice for my bf of a year and a half he always makes it negative..and then my fault. It hurts my feelings an awful lot. When I tell him this he basically calls me dumb. Example...today I went out and got us both lunch. I asked what he wanted he said "burger medium rare." So that's what I got. I bring it home he immediately finds something wrong with it. "It's too done." So now its my fault. I didn't check it before I left the restaurant so I'm "dumb" for doing so. I tell him all I was trying to do was something special for him and his response "well you didn't get what I asked you for." This is just one example. There's dozens more stories like this. I really am coming at my witts end. I go out of my way to make him happy and then somehow I mess it up or I'm too stupid to figure it out. I told him today I can't take much more of this. I'm also dealing with the passing of my grandmother and father...most likely why I have put up with his behavior for so long.