This would've been helpful when I first tried broadening my horizons as I entered my coming of age period

The amount of people that came to mind even just reading that was so scary, but you live and you learn. That being said I kinda see myself under a couple of these categories too but it really has to do with someone's impact on you personally, just a thought that if someone hurts you that you shouldn't be looking to fix them unless they seek that as well or else it's damaging to yourself and you have to put yourself first at least to some extent.