Well there's the problem she and attorney never answer what they want. Here is what we have No Kidding Over $400,000.00 in retirement and real estate and $42,000.00 in cash I want $15,000.00 cash And the 70,000.00 dollar house. Her 401k has 310,000.00 in it she is a control freak only when she has made her point that the divorce happened when she wanted it too. Yes Doctors carry a lot of weight in the courts. Can't give away everything give her what she wants okay. Oh and 18,000.00 dollars is what i Owed on the house when we got married so I want33,000.00 out of 400,000.00