My opinion is that she shouldn't have said that. Especially saying that you were irritating her! If she doesn't want to hear about difficult thoughts and feelings, then she is in the wrong job!!
I don't know if you are very attached to this T, or if she has some good points that are balancing out these bad points for you? If it was me, I definitely wouldn't go back, and I would look for another T. And possibly tell them immediately that I needed help with these kinds of thoughts and feelings, so they have the chance to show whether they are competent and capable of helping in that situation.