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Old May 19, 2017, 01:52 PM
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Even if that was part of some kind of method, it still doesn't sound something a therapist should say imo. I don't think it's helpful at all, it might block the person from wanting to open up more and it's painful to hear something like that.
I also have a T who is very straight forward and not the type that will pamper you (though I'd need that sometime) but I think T's should be supportive by default especially when we talk about vulnerable and painful topics such as sui thoughts.
Sure, they could express the idea that this direction/ thought is not very helpful for the client to stick to, but still remain supportive and not express irritation in any case. There should be some kind of unconditional acceptance.
Thanks for this!
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