I am talking about confidence in our everyday life. To talk without shaking voice and hands. To feel comfortable around people. I am not talking about strong convictions in ideologies here. I don't think we can change the fact that women are attracted to confident men in general. This is something genetic. I don't know why, but I am full of doubt of myself, even if I know something with 100% certainty, I won't have the courage to utter it at the appropriate time, and if I do, I present it with such weakness that others think it is not true because I am not confident.