It is so very so crazy of therapist to stalk this without an understanding from those present. I'm calling for a name a call forth. If the therapist actually listens to what precedes this even if from the passive influence it can get a general idea of who might be out front and near. Mainly you want respect, to go it at apace that is comfortable so that you don't loose too much control that will dissipate as you and system gets comfortable.