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Originally Posted by azu-nyan
Is it possibly just a bit of FOMO since you didn't get those experiences you feel almost build you up as a person?
That being said, I feel you should communicate this to your partner that the past experiences didn't really satisfy you as much because of your lack of interest so maybe you can have an experience with someone who you didn't feel wasted your time. I'm sure he'd understand if you two have already branched out but just be cautious to adhere to your partner's wishes too so you know neither of you are being neglected in some way.
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I'm not sure if its FOMO or not. I'm not even entirely sure how to describe what pent up emotions I currently feel. I don't want to ruin what I've worked hard to build, but at the same time, I know I want more experiences. I've attempted to talk to my partner about the past experiences but it just upset him, saying "well I tried and you still weren't happy so I don't know what else you want". Tried telling him that the choices HE made weren't my cup of tea. He gets defensive and says that he doesn't find the guys I find attractive "aren't his cup of tea either" so we end up going in endless circles. And that only makes me feel more frustrated, because he cannot/will not see it from my point of view. I'm not sure what else I can do. I just don't want to get to a point where I feel so frustrated or something that I make bad decisions or something... I'm just at a loss on what to do...
