Sometimes an 'issue' or life circumstance keeps reoccurring & repeating until it teaches us something really important... Eventually we learn and realize something which has a significant & lasting effect on our overall state of consciousness/awareness... I can't tell you what that is and answer that question for you - but I would encourage you to spend a lot of time contemplating what the 'message' is behind these types of circumstances continuing to surface in your life experience. It's like you're asking the Universe, "What is the important message here? What are you trying to show me?"... When you eventually find your answer - you'll also discover that these types of circumstances will no longer to manifest anymore...