I Agree.

Sometimes the things that you love about someone, also drive you crazy. My H has always been so sure of himself--what he wants out of life, being with me, that he made the right decision about everything. I have a hard time understanding how anyone can be so sure of themselves. I even find myself wondering--does he have all this conviction about everything just because he thinks it is what I need? But no one could fake this. He is just to d*** consistent for that to be the case. I am the opposite; I second guess many of the decisions I have made. Of course the maddening thing about it is that not all of his decisions turn out for the best (though many have) from my POV and when you are married your partner's decisions effect both of you. So it IS best to laugh because being married means that I bear the consequences of both his good and bad decisions (so does he in regards to me).