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Old May 20, 2017, 07:18 AM
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Grand Magnate
 
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Originally Posted by sinking View Post
. . . i dont want to feel im bad, wrong or twisted and rejected again. im helpless and hopeless, i know it, i dont need anyone telling me that.
That sounds to me like a deep ingrained pattern. I certainly won't call it "choice". I had something similar, feeling bad and wrong rather than helpless and hopeless. In my family and situation, that led to less rejection than the hopeless/helpless.

Therapy per see didn't help me change that.
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LonesomeTonight
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight, sinking