I spoke with my friend this morning who is in NA (clean for a year now!) and she said the same thing. Exactly the same thing. He can't be in both relationships and we could always revisit the idea of a relationship after some time of him being clean (NA recommends not starting a relationship until you have been clean 1 year). I'm not sure if that is a realistic idea cause I'm not too optimistic that he would be able to stay clean. And from the sounds of the responses above, they NEVER stay clean.
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Originally Posted by Nammu
If you really like him leave and tell him that you could revisit the idea of a relationship when he's been clean for a few months. Like mm pointed out he can't have two relationships at one time, it's you OR the drugs not both.
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current medication:
Lamitcal - 400 mg
Latuda - 60 mg
Klonopin - 0.5 mg
Trazodone 100 mg (as needed)
Medications I've been on in the past: Haldol, Risperdal, Ability, Depakote, Lithium, Celexa, Wellbutrin, Geodon.
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