As for bullshyttt pics .. Easiest solution is to ask them to hold a Item YOU choose and take a selfie..

Your picking the item ensures he is who he says/ shows he is.

Hold a bottle of water in right hand.
Put a pencil behind your left ear
Hold a wadded up Walmart bag

Anyway at least a way to find out if they are truthful about looks at least .

If they dont respond then they are probably looking to deceive people.