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Old May 20, 2017, 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted by gmts View Post
I once had this when I was around 27. It is a mental block that can have all sorts of reasons. But once you are in there everything just becomes worse. Once you get out of it, everything will be back to normal.

One possible solution here to get out is to decide not to have intercourse. Kissing, touching, making out, everything is possible and allowed, but not intercourse. This takes off the pressure and eventually it will come back.
I don't know what "normal" is because this problem has existed since the beginning of our relationship and even in his previous relationship

It was an issue before we ever decided to have intercourse as well.
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