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Originally Posted by Sassandclass
I love your post! Thank you so much for making me feel like someone understands what I go through.
It's frustrating to be the good friend, only to be manipulatively put in a bad light by others (and those "others" are the people those close to you believe!! Over you!! Ughhh!)
Women, in my experience, can be treacherous. Not all, ofcorse, but a lot of them. Manipulative too. I'm not a game player, and so that puts me out of the running. 
They are playing manipulative games, and I'm trying to play by the rules (mostly the golden rule). It's disheartening to feel like I'm always losing! 
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I think it's part of being a good person, people will take advantage of any naiveness they can see sometimes if they think they can benefit from that betrayal even if your contributions are more valuable in a long term scheme of things
But rest assured, I feel like when you start to meet more like minded people that can see you're genuine and are wanting to have something that's mutually beneficial where there is give, not only take, is when it starts to turn around. OF COURSE, I can't say I've necessarily run into such at this point in my life just yet, but I believe they're out there.