I'm very sorry that you have been devistated by an N. It can make life very surreal. I have had them mess up my life considerably. But You must watch out for your 'self' first - they really aren't capable of caring as their 'self' was destroyed long ago. If the T's say to break all contact, I'd do that. You deserve a good life. A life full of common sense, fairness, reality and real joy.

You are a good person to care so much for her still.


VoN