I would NOT get married to the guy I did & listen to the red flags I realized before the wedding even though I do love my daughter....Other fix would have been to have left LONG BEFORE I did & not waste all those years of my life in that situation.

Also might have stayed in the commercial business end of computer design/programming rsther than going into aerospace....longer lasting career would hsve been better.

I like the fix I have ended up with though would have liked a better financial outcome than what happened sticking in that bad marriage but at least I am financially responsible with what I have.