I guess I'm strange because I assumed you are paying enough attention to your kids. If I'm wrong im sorry. If you are not, perhaps listening to your husband is good. If you are, tell your husband that you are unwell and listening to 60's music is helpful and that if he has enough time on his hands and wellness to be concerned with the children's needs that he can spent the time he takes blitching at you and redirect it in a more helpful place such as spending some time with his children.