I'm unaware of just how a person who takes out a loan for a house can later just write himself "off the mortgage." Since you've seen two attorneys, you have access to answers to your legal questions.

You've gone back to reiterating how your husband says this, and your husband says that. He can say anything he likes. That doesn't make it true. Some of the things he believes are probably a bunch of nonsense based on his being ignorant. So you have lawyers to advise you. Get legal advise, so that you're not ignorant.

You seem overly impressed with his threats. Re-read the replies in the earlier part of this thread. I'm wondering what are all these assets that he's planning to take. Right now, your house is more or less owned by the bank. Every year you have taxes to pay on the house. There's insurance to pay. I doubt he wants those bills. So what other assets is he claiming? Half the pots and pans, perhaps? If he "takes the kids," what's he going to do with them? More than likely, you'll be lucky if he spends any time at all with the kids, once you're divorced. This doesn't sound like a guy looking for responsibilities.

You are making him out to be way more of a threat than I believe he has any capacity to pose. Let go of the high drama, and look at the realities.