((((((((((((((cyran)))))))))))))only just came across this post

What happened seems completely normal to me when both parties are tired and frought, especially where little ones are concerned....been married 19 years and the times were hard when my kids were small....it's so easy to feel unerappreciated on both sides imo, I think everyone goes through stages of doubting loving a partner...it's human nature.....you and she are exhausted....it's an exhausting job working AND bringing up a family. Wishing you peace and harmony and I do hope you can talk and resolve these issues...well, I know you will.....hugs to a dear friend

Jin xx