I agree Rose and Bill, maybe I am Naieve to everything. I'm leaning on moving on with my life without her. I think I have it plenty of time. She tells me that "Just cause I'm ready to compromise and reconcile doesn't mean she has to be right away". Do you think a Divorce busting 180 with her will work? We have kids so it's hard not to communicate. I told her I'm not interested in being just her "Friends" as she had mentioned before "Why can't we be friends and coparent". She tells me all the time to grow up and stop being immature when she is the one doing both. I told her I would file for divorce if she is cometely done. I just want the truth so I can say at the end I tried everything that's in my control to make my marriage work.