I put "I'm not sure." I had big attachment issues with my former T -- I would google her obsessively, daydream about being her best friend, write her letters that I never sent her, etc. I knew it was a problem, but I didn't know how to bring it up.
It wasn't until I came to PC (about one month before terminating with that T) that I realized that attachments like this are normal. Now that I know that and know how to work around it, I definitely am not as attached to my current T. But, I do go through periods where I google her because I feel a desperation to be close with her. But those moments are fleeting. For the most part, I think we have a normal relationship, a secure attachment I guess.
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