we can choose (sometimes) what to focus on Jinny... remember you are a person seperate but connected to others... when your own energy levels diminish it is time to assess what things are causing those drains... living should be self-energizing and a happy time for us... between the downs shoud be long periods of grace and joy..
while we should consider others, its important to consider our own self as well... to live life in its fullest, remember the person whio exists inside you... feed and nurture the person well...
when we are ill it is difficult to know and understand what we need for ourselves, i'm certain those who truly love us and truly care will want our own person to be happy and fulfilled...
sometimes things get lost along the way... but time is a blessing we all can access... it is never to late to re-build...
sending kind and gentle thoughts...
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