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Originally Posted by Trace14
Maybe these aren't a problem for you and that's great. I know many here would love to be in that situation. My opinion for me is that fixing them or finding away to have a balance with them would be the ultimate goal. To find the happiness and love again that I once had.
There's nothing wrong with trying to provide for yourself and be strong, as long as you are happy. But to me you sound conflicted with this. You want to be strong, self sufficient, but something is missing that would make you whole again. If it's not worth the work and trouble to you though, things will never change. On the other hand if you are a very happy person now , why change?
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You're right. I'm not happy at all and it's unlikely that I ever will be.
I choose isolation and I bury myself in work and my hobbies so that I don't have to feel anything.
I could put the work into changing but I simply don't care enough to want to change at this point because I don't desire to put the work into changing and would rather put the work into doing something big with my life that people would actually care about instead.