The boy in your dream represents an aspect of your mind and reflects a specific idea you have taken a liking too. [Considering the church image, this might be the idea/issue of spirituality.] It is an idea that may provide some emotional satisfaction but lacks somewhat in logic. (met a boy - not a man) You see yourself really getting somewhere with this idea. (traveling far)

A church represents the idea of organized Christian spiritual thinking. For some reason you have no awareness of (for whatever reason), you feel you need to "cut through" a church. This can imply needing to take a shortcut and by pass the church OR it could imply getting somewhere by going via the church. Yet here "the church" you are going via and may need to by pass is a weird cultist fundamentalist church, i.e. not one reflecting mainstream religious spiritual thinking. You may need to remember that the idea of being a worshipper in such a church (the congregants) is not "a find", i.e. it is not an idea to value and treasure. (unable to find congregants) What you could see as "a find" are the officers of the church, those having an official role of authority, those who minister to the spiritual needs of the congregation (priests and pastors etc.) yet these could be found at a different church - implying not at the cultist church. But even this may be questionable. (at a different church ?)

The woman speaker represents an emotional aspect of yourself that "speaks to you" when you respond to the new idea you have taken an interest in (she picks out me and my guy), i.e. she reflects a feeling that strikes a resonating chord within you or addresses your concerns. Here this feeling would have you see yourself as an initiate of this cultish church and make it official (by donning robes and an initiation ceremony) A delay allows you to see that in reality (outside) there is something to be discussed about this idea (talk about it)... but exactly what is highly questionable (something ???)

You seem quite aware that the significance and function of the idea you have taken a liking to has no Biblical association (boys name is Alex not John) yet from the emotional perspective of the speaker or spokeswoman for a cultish church - you persist in regarding it as such. (calls Alex, John) You are also associating yourself (via your name) as having a function of responding to a Biblical idea (named as a former wife of John the apostle) which you know to be wrong. Yet at some emotional level you are okay with this error.

You take an opportunity to get away from this cultish church and the idea you have taken a liking to may be seen as "a find" when it is seen as being not really "up front" or legitimate in relation to a cultist church. (find Alex behind the church building) There is a course of action leading you towards a forest, i.e. towards a situation regarding which there could be too much concern for details and no real understanding of the whole situation. (as in "can't see the forest for the trees") The course of action seen suggests that rationales that seem workable (trucks) are creating your course of action which is also a questionable idea. (road work?)