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Old May 22, 2017, 05:13 PM
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I assume I have "attachment issues" although it has never been explicitly described as such by my therapist. He has described a "push-pull" dynamic with me, however, and that's the classic "come here -- go away" style of people with fearful attachment issues. Which would make sense given my background, I guess.

Basically I am "working" on this by recognizing that I am actually the one doing the distancing in my adult relationships. I try to face up to how I isolate myself from loved ones that I say I want to be close to. I am trying to intentionally let them in a little more even when my instinct is to put up a wall.
Thanks for this!
Elio, rainbow8