I'm a NJ girl too. Horray to you for your Integrity & Strength of character! You are incredible.You're right! Sometimes it even gets down to One "Moment" at a Time. Something Extremely valuable to me during Crisis Times which might last months: In 12 Step Program it is called
"JUST FOR TODAY." It's not necessarily for addictions. But this has helped me to keep going on.Day by Day, Baby Steps, that add up to a Life.I thank God for it every day.(If you want me to PM it to you I will). mp