ok so I don't usually talk about this but since its private here, I will.

I am currently in therapy and one of my issues is that I have a fear of being close to people. it has caused me to never even have been on a date, suk at making friends etc

So, basically, I am over 30 and not only have I never been on a date, but I've never even kissed a guy and obviously never had sex. I am wondering 2 things...

1--- is this extremely weird/odd at my age?

2-- is this a topic I SHOULD bring up in therapy or is it something (hopefully) I can just never mention and still be able to work on my issues with being close to people?