1 ---- no it's not extremely weird/odd. Society has norms that say you must reach x milestone by x age in order to be considered within the parameters of normal. All that matters is that you are working on this in therapy because you want to and that at some point in the future you will do these things when you are comfortable doing them.

2 ---- you could never mention it but I encourage you to talk to your therapist about it since it's bothering you. Your therapist could help you get this off your chest and feel more at peace with it.

Best wishes...